Being a psychic medium I am lucky enough to feel the heart of London’s problems and aspirations. “What does the future hold and when oh when will I get a love life?”
I don’t believe that you can tell the future. Most future predictions are based on a likelihood of the present, with a touch on insight. For example, if an agoraphobic asked me when would they meet a man, I would have to point out how likely it would be, if it were the post man!
But in this busy city many women are fed up with the world and trying to find the partner they are looking for. Since women have become strong and independent, we have been crying out for a man to match us as an equal, or a strong man so when we have been in control all day, that someone one else could at least pick the restaurant. Instead, we are finding ourselves in roles where we are playing Mum! What happened to all the strong men?
In our circle of completeness men lost their role in our lives. Simply we don’t need them. The role a man is biologically designed for is that of provider. As modern women we can provide everything for ourselves, or at least pay someone to do it for us. But the things we miss are playing on the sofa like a couple of Puppies with big paws and tongues. We miss that sense of joy.
The way to get this back is to know that the only person we need to trust is ourselves, to be ok if we get hurt. Then have some fun with it. Take away the need for the outcome, the “is he the one?” and take the moment for the enjoyment it presents. Allow yourself to be vulnerable, all the while knowing that you hold the key to your own happiness, no one else. This way you have more chance of meeting the right man and keeping him, before the clock ticks out! Changing ourselves changes the world around us.
Copyright © 2005 Becky Walsh